Husband Fakes His Orgasms. Wife Has No Clue.
Would a woman know a faker if she was faced with one?
You think you know everything and then something bizarre comes along that changes your mind about sex. A man can fake it. It takes a unique set of circumstances but it’s possible — the details of which I'll get to shortly. The other issue of why it’s done is just as intriguing. Why would a man fake WANT to fake in the first place?
It goes against everything he is.
Finishing off is the goal. That happy ending is the task. To stop is wrong. If it’s real, it’s got to be a sick game of some sort.
You got that right.
Read on. And read those next few words very slowly.
The husband doesn't want his wife to get pregnant. They've planned to have a child, but he's changed his mind. There's lots of grunting, groaning and a final shove to make it feel real, but that's all there is. The end isn’t the natural end. It's done for show.
Okay, that's the short answer, now back to the first half of the story — the bit you want to know.
That question you have: How can he get away with it?
She's naive. Oh yes, she's old enough to know but a wholesome religious upbringing sheltered her understanding of sex. She can't tell the difference between sexual juices. Pre-cum, vaginal lubricants and semen, are confusing to her. (Now hang on, give my story a chance.) She’s been a good Catholic girl who saved herself for her wedding night. It just so happens that she reached her thirties an inexperienced woman. (See? There’s more to it.) She simply doesn’t know or want to know the details of what happens below the sheets.
Feelings of guilt and shame swirl about her head during coitus. It masks the reality of the true mechanics of sex.
Okay. That answers the immediate question — but more arise, don’t they?
Why doesn't he want a child with his wife?
Why the animosity?
What happens to this marriage now?
Geeeze. Where do I start? I could go straight to their wedding night. There's enough context there to understand how they came to be here. It's a terribly romantic but sad story. On paper, it should’ve worked, but seven years of abstinence altered things in ways that no one would’ve expected. It put sex high on a pedestal, so high that it became unreachable. It was the “I Do” that sabotaged it. Their honeymoon was a failure. Life after it wasn't any better.
Today, it’s a battle of wills — that's how their counsellor puts it. Four years have passed by, and now the couple is at an impasse.
She needs a baby. He needs physical intimacy. Neither provides for the other. A husband is told to impregnate his ovulating wife is also determined to fake each union to get more sex — while she’s no wiser.
There’s quite a bit more to be said about it, and I'm sure you'll want to know why I know how this story is true. It's because I was there.